The Teen Mom Debate

MTV’s Teen Mom has brought the issue of teenage pregnancy to the forefront of public attention. A massively popular show that has attracted as many as 5.6 million viewers, the reality program documents the lives of four teenage girls coping with becoming a mother at a young age. While the show aims to prevent teenage girls from having sex and getting pregnant, many say the program can have negative effects on young women.

Naysayers primarily argue that Teen Mom glamorizes teenage pregnancy. The girls portrayed on the show have become famous and are featured on television interviews and magazine covers. The girls also earn thousands of dollars for each episode they star in. Recent MTV casting calls for the show have critics believing that the program is actually encouraging teens to become pregnant.

Still, advocates for the show believe that it is doing some good. A recent public opinion poll by the National Campaign to Prevent Teen and Unplanned Pregnancy found that 82 percent feel the show helps teens understand the hardships that young mothers face. Further, because the teens featured on the show come from all walks of life, it demonstrates to viewers that teenage pregnancy can happen to anyone. And, because many parents and children watch the show together, it helps open lines of communication on a topic that’s often difficult to talk about. The National Campaign’s poll, for instance, found that 40 percent of teens discussed the topic of teen pregnancy with a parent after watching the program.

 

The Truth Behind Teen Pregnancy TV Shows

Teen pregnancy shows. Along with other reality shows that show-off the day to day lives of seemingly ordinary individuals, we get the truth about what truly occurs in the day to day lives of teens that are pregnant. Or do we?

When a camera is on an individual or their family, what do we really get?

In private the camera is in the off position and we are left to deal with our choice with only our closest loved ones, if we even have that. What we get is real, honest truth about our week by week pregnancy as a teenager. We see the responsibility, the heart-ache of losing our previous life; we get the real grit on working and sudden adult-hood. Our boyfriend may leave us, we may choose adoption, or we may keep the baby with the help of our family. But, in the end, it’s all about the truth of who we are un-backed by how we might appear to a television audience.

We are not glorified. We are not put in the spotlight.

Sure, teens see what other teens are going through on teen pregnancy TV shows, but what choices are being made based on the lights of the all-consuming camera? Is it the “real” choice or some fabrication based on what “appears” to be the real choice?

It may be that we learn something, we may make a different choice, a better choice because of what we have seen (and so might the teen because she is being viewed), but what of the truth?